A Perfect Day.....(in my dream)

How you define a perfect day? Having an extremely luxurious holiday and spoiled yourself at beauty parlour? Or maybe just sit at home watching dvd and doing nothing because you were having a hectic day everyday? Too much question marks huh? For me, a perfect day is having all day relaxing and hibernating myself. 

I've been  super busy for this whole semester especially this past few weeks and up to now. And it seems like everyone try to test my anger which it works, by disappoint me in various ways. 

Just now, I just ordered for my dinner - bihun basah , and I was so excited to eat it because I haven't had my lunch yet and had a very light breakfast. Unfortunately, I got the most driest (dry) bihun in my life. I just ate a bit and keep it in microwave.

Not to be fussy but fyi, I got a different food from my original order for two days in a row. Yes, and I did not complain about it but still buying my dinner there. And keep complaining and cursing the cook. Am I so Malaysian? Maybe. We usually tend not to complain too much about it for some reasons. 

For me, I choose not to complain because my mum always told me that if you complain too much to the cook, sometimes they will put something else in your food or it's something like 'santau' . 

Could be true I guess but for how long I need to just keep my mouth shut? If I acted emotionally, I will threw away the food to the cook, but if I acted rationally, maybe I will just express my disappointment to the cook straight to his face and will not go to the restaurant anymore. Which I think a bit difficult as it is the nearest restaurant from my house. 

But ya, again, who dare to speak up and tell the truth? I mean I'm referring to the situation in Malaysia because I knew that in western countries, this situation is rarely happened in their country. Which I mean they always stand for their customer's rights no matter whatever happened. How about us? When and how we will  change? We need to change!   

Hidup Kalau...

Hidup ni hanyalah sementara. Hidup kalau fikir hal keduniaan memang kacau. Hidup kalau asyik fikir nak bersaing dengan semua orang memang susah. Kita memang tak akan jadi sama macam orang lain. Sampai bila-bila pun. Tak ada sesiapa pun dalam dunia ni yang sama nasib dan rezekinya. Sedangkan kembar seiras pun cap jari berbeza. Setiap orang tu berbeza-beza, kalau kita duk fikir nak bersaing siapa lagi bagus, siapa lagi kaya, memang kita takkan puas hati. Memang lumrah hidup manausia tak akan puas dengan apa yang dia ada. Nasib kita takkan sama macam orang lain. Kita mungkin kurang bernasib baik daripada orang lain dan mungkin jauh lebih baik daripada mereka.

Hidup ni kalau nak senang dengan jalan mudah je memang makan diri sendiri. Tuhan memang suruh kita berdoa kalau nak kan sesuatu tapi diikuti dengan usaha. Kalau nak dapat sesuatu dengan senang atau dengan cara kotor memang akan tercapai tapi ianya takkan kekal sampai bila-bila. Ingat! benda yang senang dapat selalunya akan senang hilang. Jadi, bersusah-susah dahulu, bersenang-senang kemudian.

Mungkin kena bersabar sikit. Sabar. Cakap memang senang tapi nak buat tu payah sangat. Tapi kalau sabar sikit je, Tuhan akan bagi reward kat kita. Memang payah nak telan ubat yang pahit. Tapi sooner or later kita akan get used to it.

So tak perlulah nak rasa sakit hati dengan orang lain atau tikam belakang kawan sebab kita tak sehebat mereka. Instead of buat macam tu, better kita aim apa yang kita nak dalam hidup ni. Hidup ni bukan untuk puaskan hati orang lain, bukan untuk buat dajal kat orang tapi hargai apa yang kita ada. Kalau kita tak terima seadanya, kita takkan bahagia.

"when you can't have what you want, it's time to start wanting what you have"

Sedih

Telefon hilang. Hari ni hari yang sedih. Dari pukul 1 petang lepas habis menonton 'Songlap' kat wayang Sunway Pyramid sampai la sekarang ni. Hari ni rasa sangat kosong. Telefon hilang rasa macam separuh dari hidup ni hilang. Telefon tu pun bukannya mahal dan canggih mana tapi sangat selesa guna telefon tu. Bukan la nak tuduh sesiapa yang mencuri, memang yang mengambilnya tidak pasti siapa tapi yang pastinya orang mencuri tak akan mengaku pencuri.

Hello, What's Your Name?

Name. It is the first thing you mention when you introduce yourself to others. Some people have a very long name, some have very short name. Name of a person usually will be given by our parents at the time we were born. Every name given has its meaning. Good meaning mostly. But sometimes we don't realise that how important for us to bring the name in a respectful way.

I do believe that name sometimes can influence your behaviour. This is because name is like a 'doa' (pray) for the owner's name. For instance, when I was watching a drama at TV3 few weeks ago, 'Yang Terpuji'. It's about a very mischievous kid name Ahmad Muhammad. But his dad call him Mamat. So, his teacher advise his father to call Ahmad Muhammad with his actual name not the nickname. Why? Muhammad means 'the praiseworthy' unlike Mamat, which means 'dead'.

So we can see that name bring the big impact on ourselves. Some of the nickname will change the whole meaning from our actual name. I think if it is so difficult to call your own children their actual name, why not just give them a very short name with a good meaning. Good example : Yasmin (Jasmine). She will always smell good.

WORDS HAVE MEANING AND NAMES HAVE POWER.

The Biggest Book Sale In The World!

It's Big Bad Wolf Book Sale! 
Reading is part of my hobby that I love to do in my free time. When I read I will be in it. Sometimes it really makes me feel that I'm not in actual world when I was reading a book. Unfortunately, books in Malaysia are not as cheap as what I heard in many western countries. If I want to read English books, most probably I need to have higher budget compare buying Malay books. In order to save more money, my sister and I will buy second-hand books at pay less book in Subang Jaya. But when I heard about the biggest book sale here, I was so excited to go there.

Surprisingly, most of the books there are sold at the price RM8. Even the hard cover one. I was telling to myself : "This is awesome! HIP HIP HOORAY!"

Finally I bought 14 books + another 2 books with my sister.